Hey there.. just saw the linky from Overclockers.com
congrats on the new addition to the family. give the little on a hug from NZ.
As for Heather, my thoughts and prayers are with her. She is young and will recover. Have faith. I'm a doc and I know docs are always pessimistic (its called not giving false hope) and are sometimes pretty horrible when they give prognosis. Things change.
Take care of yourself first ok. If you need anything, give a shout.
Cheers bro.