Why do i have such low self esteem?

PixelCloud · 08-23-2002, 08:10 PM

Dammit this sucks....

I'm going to the beach with the girl i really really really really really really really really like tommorow, and i'm to gutless to ask her out..

The sad thing is i am postive that she likes me too.

--PixelCloud

BTW: sorry just had to vent don't want this to turn in the [H]

bigben2k · 08-23-2002, 10:24 PM

Treat her like a friend: everything will fall into place from there...

g.l.amour · 08-24-2002, 09:35 AM

sounds corny, but be yourself.

would be stoopid to portray yourself different, gets tiring in the long run.

|PuNiSh3R| · 08-24-2002, 11:22 AM

argh.. I know exactly how you feel... Best thing to do.. is just come straight out and say it.. She probably understands you are shy.. so don't worry.. be yourself..

PixelCloud · 08-25-2002, 07:35 AM

if u guys give good advice then I have a good start..

Except i havn't told her i like her yet.

bigben2k · 08-25-2002, 05:29 PM

Maybe you're just not ready to tell her yet. It'll come, in time.

PixelCloud · 08-25-2002, 05:59 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by bigben2k
Maybe you're just not ready to tell her yet. It'll come, in time.

well i better be ready soon.. its been over a year since i have madely fallin in love

lol

mfpmax · 08-26-2002, 12:25 AM

YOU BETTER ASK HER OUT!

I may have just lost perfect girl #112 because I didn't ask her out.

Balerion · 08-26-2002, 01:04 AM

You WANT to ask her out. Do so. Learn from everyone elses mistakes. It always turns out bad if you don't. How is not asking her out any different from getting rejected/dumped? Can you see your friendship continuing to be healthy and good with you wanting to ask her out constantly. Looks like the beach thing is already a date, and even better because you get to see her in a swimsuit. If you don't, you'll never know. Take it in baby steps. When your time at the beach is over, slip in a little "this was fun, we should do it again sometime."

WebMasta33 · 08-26-2002, 01:27 AM

It's simple...

You don't ask her our, you'll always be stuck with the "what if" and it can reallly drive you mad.

The worst thing she can do is say no. If she says no, respect it.

mfpmax · 08-26-2002, 01:52 AM

if she kicks you below the belt...it was never meant to be.

PixelCloud · 08-26-2002, 07:43 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by mfpmax
if she kicks you below the belt...it was never meant to be.

lmao

thank you i need that!

DarkEdge · 08-26-2002, 09:50 AM

Just ask. Better to be rejected then dwell/dream/cry over her 24/7 for as long as you know her.

Not to mention it sucks when a women dates a ****ing guy when you like her, and she gets hurt, or makes really ****ing stupid choices and pays for them 10 fold. I'm in that situation now. My ex fiance is falling down hill everyday. She hasn't been the same since she left me. She dropped out of college, lost her job, her apt. Has had 6 bf's in 5 months, they have all treated her like shit.

I bask in my glory that her life is going to hell, but I feel sorry for her at the same time.

PixelCloud · 08-26-2002, 10:24 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by DarkEdge
Just ask. Better to be rejected then dwell/dream/cry over her 24/7 for as long as you know her.

Not to mention it sucks when a women dates a ****ing guy when you like her, and she gets hurt, or makes really ****ing stupid choices and pays for them 10 fold. I'm in that situation now. My ex fiance is falling down hill everyday. She hasn't been the same since she left me. She dropped out of college, lost her job, her apt. Has had 6 bf's in 5 months, they have all treated her like shit.

I bask in my glory that her life is going to hell, but I feel sorry for her at the same time.

Her last boyfriend broke up with her because he found someone better.... I broke his jaw

PixelCloud · 08-26-2002, 11:39 AM

Arg... Even just thinking about asking her out makes me feeling uneasy.

|PuNiSh3R| · 08-26-2002, 01:36 PM

dude.. PRACTICE.. look in the mirror and say the words.. you won't even be able to do that.. but you just gotta over come it.. i bet you can't even sit at your PC all alone and say her name.. or say.. i love (her name)

man once you get over that shit.. it's all easy.. i know EXACTLY how you feel.. i couldn't even ask a girl out with out laughing or smiling really bad or some shit.. but i just practiced alone.. and i got over it for the most part.. just do it.. BAM! let it come right out... practice the words so you don't f*ck it up.. keep it short and real..

(her name) would you like to go out with me (night)

get the idea.. NOW GO DO IT! OR I WILL LOSE ALL RESPECT FOR YOU SHY COMPTUER NERD!

PixelCloud · 08-26-2002, 02:08 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by |PuNiSh3R|
dude.. PRACTICE.. look in the mirror and say the words.. you won't even be able to do that.. but you just gotta over come it.. i bet you can't even sit at your PC all alone and say her name.. or say.. i love (her name)

man once you get over that shit.. it's all easy.. i know EXACTLY how you feel.. i couldn't even ask a girl out with out laughing or smiling really bad or some shit.. but i just practiced alone.. and i got over it for the most part.. just do it.. BAM! let it come right out... practice the words so you don't f*ck it up.. keep it short and real..

(her name) would you like to go out with me (night)

get the idea.. NOW GO DO IT! OR I WILL LOSE ALL RESPECT FOR YOU SHY COMPTUER NERD!

maybe when i get home i'm in a office full of people right now

|PuNiSh3R| · 08-26-2002, 02:25 PM

do it buddy.. you will TOTALLY regret it.. she is just waiting for u to ask her.. you will ****ing KILL yourself if some other guy asks her out and she gets sick of waiting for u and goes with him..

THE WORST she will say is..

"i'd just like to stay friends.. is that ok?"

And then you gotta be a man.. and take it dignity and just say..

"yea.. that's good with me"

just leave it at that.. i HIGHLY doubt she will say no though.. most girls won't go to the beach ALONE with a guy.. and get into a swim suit.. etc etc.. even if you are friends.. she wants more.. go give it to her man!

PixelCloud · 08-26-2002, 02:32 PM

ok next time i see her I will ask her out.

PixelCloud · 08-26-2002, 02:36 PM

BTW: You sound like you are talking out of experience

|PuNiSh3R| · 08-26-2002, 02:38 PM

i haven't had much.. i just know the feeling.. last girl i had just lead me on.. then she took a shit on me and my feelings.. i guess she thought i was way older then i was.. and she likes to slut with older guys i guess

PixelCloud · 08-26-2002, 02:39 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by |PuNiSh3R|
i haven't had much.. i just know the feeling.. last girl i had just lead me on.. then she took a shit on me and my feelings.. i guess she thought i was way older then i was.. and she likes to slut with older guys i guess

then she wasn't good enough for you... not a big enough phase change setup

|PuNiSh3R| · 08-26-2002, 03:18 PM

hah.. Yea.. who cares about her.. dumb bitch is what I say.. I guess I was just so surprised that a gil was actually after me.. lol..

PixelCloud · 08-26-2002, 04:26 PM

ok i'm home!

yay

PixelCloud · 08-27-2002, 07:19 PM

Ok i got the plan!

I'm going to invite her over to watch movies and have dinner..

The rest of the family are going to goto a movie or something.

After we watch teh movie i'm going to ask her if she would like to go out with me.

Sound good?

I'm a good chef too so dont' worry about me poisioning her lol

08-23-2002, 10:24 PM	#2
bigben2k Responsible for 2% of all the posts here. Join Date: May 2002 Location: Texas, U.S.A. Posts: 8,302	Treat her like a friend: everything will fall into place from there... __________________ WBTA (Water Block Testing Alliance) Nordic Hardware WC 101

08-25-2002, 05:29 PM	#6
bigben2k Responsible for 2% of all the posts here. Join Date: May 2002 Location: Texas, U.S.A. Posts: 8,302	Maybe you're just not ready to tell her yet. It'll come, in time. __________________ WBTA (Water Block Testing Alliance) Nordic Hardware WC 101

08-26-2002, 12:25 AM	#8
mfpmax Cooling Savant Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Rockledge,FL,US Posts: 731	YOU BETTER ASK HER OUT! I may have just lost perfect girl #112 because I didn't ask her out. __________________ My old and retired watercooling setup. Watercooled K6-2 450 at 600 Also Retired - Watercooling an XP1800@1782MHz

08-26-2002, 01:27 AM	#10
WebMasta33 Cooling Savant Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Nebraska Posts: 526	It's simple... You don't ask her our, you'll always be stuck with the "what if" and it can reallly drive you mad. The worst thing she can do is say no. If she says no, respect it. __________________ ========== --Soyo KT333 DRAGON Ultra (Platinum Edition) --AMD 1.4 @ 1.54 (11x) --768mb of PC2100 (@140FSB) --Asus v8200 GeForce3 @ 210/490 --Maxtor 40gb Quiet + 2 IBM 40gb 60GXPs (removable) + 8gb WD --Audigy --Maze 3, DD Gf3 block, 2x BIX, Eheim1250 ===========

08-23-2002, 08:10 PM	#1
PixelCloud Cooling Neophyte Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Canada the BIG TO Posts: 54	Why do i have such low self esteem? Dammit this sucks.... I'm going to the beach with the girl i really really really really really really really really like tommorow, and i'm to gutless to ask her out.. The sad thing is i am postive that she likes me too. --PixelCloud BTW: sorry just had to vent don't want this to turn in the [H]

08-24-2002, 09:35 AM	#3
g.l.amour Cooling Savant Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: on da case Posts: 933	sounds corny, but be yourself. would be stoopid to portray yourself different, gets tiring in the long run.

08-24-2002, 11:22 AM	#4
\|PuNiSh3R\| Foo's Been Banned Join Date: May 2002 Location: Pennsyltucky Posts: 255	argh.. I know exactly how you feel... Best thing to do.. is just come straight out and say it.. She probably understands you are shy.. so don't worry.. be yourself..

08-25-2002, 07:35 AM	#5
PixelCloud Cooling Neophyte Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Canada the BIG TO Posts: 54	if u guys give good advice then I have a good start.. Except i havn't told her i like her yet.

08-26-2002, 01:04 AM	#9
Balerion Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Traverse City, MI Posts: 10	You WANT to ask her out. Do so. Learn from everyone elses mistakes. It always turns out bad if you don't. How is not asking her out any different from getting rejected/dumped? Can you see your friendship continuing to be healthy and good with you wanting to ask her out constantly. Looks like the beach thing is already a date, and even better because you get to see her in a swimsuit. If you don't, you'll never know. Take it in baby steps. When your time at the beach is over, slip in a little "this was fun, we should do it again sometime."

08-26-2002, 01:52 AM	#11
mfpmax Cooling Savant Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Rockledge,FL,US Posts: 731	if she kicks you below the belt...it was never meant to be. __________________ My old and retired watercooling setup. Watercooled K6-2 450 at 600 Also Retired - Watercooling an XP1800@1782MHz

08-26-2002, 09:50 AM	#13
DarkEdge Cooling Savant Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Sugar Land, Tx Posts: 176	Just ask. Better to be rejected then dwell/dream/cry over her 24/7 for as long as you know her. Not to mention it sucks when a women dates a **ing guy when you like her, and she gets hurt, or makes really **ing stupid choices and pays for them 10 fold. I'm in that situation now. My ex fiance is falling down hill everyday. She hasn't been the same since she left me. She dropped out of college, lost her job, her apt. Has had 6 bf's in 5 months, they have all treated her like shit. I bask in my glory that her life is going to hell, but I feel sorry for her at the same time.

08-26-2002, 11:39 AM	#15
PixelCloud Cooling Neophyte Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Canada the BIG TO Posts: 54	Arg... Even just thinking about asking her out makes me feeling uneasy.

08-26-2002, 01:36 PM	#16
\|PuNiSh3R\| Foo's Been Banned Join Date: May 2002 Location: Pennsyltucky Posts: 255	dude.. PRACTICE.. look in the mirror and say the words.. you won't even be able to do that.. but you just gotta over come it.. i bet you can't even sit at your PC all alone and say her name.. or say.. i love (her name) man once you get over that shit.. it's all easy.. i know EXACTLY how you feel.. i couldn't even ask a girl out with out laughing or smiling really bad or some shit.. but i just practiced alone.. and i got over it for the most part.. just do it.. BAM! let it come right out... practice the words so you don't f*ck it up.. keep it short and real.. (her name) would you like to go out with me (night) get the idea.. NOW GO DO IT! OR I WILL LOSE ALL RESPECT FOR YOU SHY COMPTUER NERD!

08-26-2002, 02:25 PM	#18
\|PuNiSh3R\| Foo's Been Banned Join Date: May 2002 Location: Pennsyltucky Posts: 255	do it buddy.. you will TOTALLY regret it.. she is just waiting for u to ask her.. you will ****ing KILL yourself if some other guy asks her out and she gets sick of waiting for u and goes with him.. THE WORST she will say is.. "i'd just like to stay friends.. is that ok?" And then you gotta be a man.. and take it dignity and just say.. "yea.. that's good with me" just leave it at that.. i HIGHLY doubt she will say no though.. most girls won't go to the beach ALONE with a guy.. and get into a swim suit.. etc etc.. even if you are friends.. she wants more.. go give it to her man!

08-26-2002, 02:32 PM	#19
PixelCloud Cooling Neophyte Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Canada the BIG TO Posts: 54	ok next time i see her I will ask her out.

08-26-2002, 02:36 PM	#20
PixelCloud Cooling Neophyte Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Canada the BIG TO Posts: 54	BTW: You sound like you are talking out of experience

08-26-2002, 02:38 PM	#21
\|PuNiSh3R\| Foo's Been Banned Join Date: May 2002 Location: Pennsyltucky Posts: 255	i haven't had much.. i just know the feeling.. last girl i had just lead me on.. then she took a shit on me and my feelings.. i guess she thought i was way older then i was.. and she likes to slut with older guys i guess

08-26-2002, 03:18 PM	#23
\|PuNiSh3R\| Foo's Been Banned Join Date: May 2002 Location: Pennsyltucky Posts: 255	hah.. Yea.. who cares about her.. dumb bitch is what I say.. I guess I was just so surprised that a gil was actually after me.. lol..

08-26-2002, 04:26 PM	#24
PixelCloud Cooling Neophyte Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Canada the BIG TO Posts: 54	ok i'm home! yay

08-27-2002, 07:19 PM	#25
PixelCloud Cooling Neophyte Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Canada the BIG TO Posts: 54	Ok i got the plan! I'm going to invite her over to watch movies and have dinner.. The rest of the family are going to goto a movie or something. After we watch teh movie i'm going to ask her if she would like to go out with me. Sound good? I'm a good chef too so dont' worry about me poisioning her lol

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