Hi Lonely Ravel,
I use a Weller WES50 at work, plus a Metcal soldering station. The Weller does as well as the Metcal for what I use it for, for a fraction of the price (the Metcal is ~$1K).
What you need is a good binocular microscope, like the CO-SZ-600 from Scienscope.
Stereo Zoom
They call their stuff a stereo zoom.
Wesco and Bausch&Lomb are other manufacturers.
These units are pricey (~400-500 US$) but you won't regret your investment.
Soldering Tools
Metcal Retailer
Weller Retailer
Invest in a stereo zoom, and in good fine solder tips, rather than in an expensive soldering station.
Also, to desolder properly, you need a second soldering iron, so that you can desolder each side of the component at the same time.
This may be a very usefull tool:
Dual iron station
Don't forget to ventilate your work bench, solder fumes contain nasty stuff.
So you are in the "moding" biz? I am thinking about it too.