thanks for the input thus far.
Cooltechnica sells a relay/switch kit but when I look at the picture for the kit ($18 US) I don't get how this kit takes all the work off your hands. It looks like one would still have to be soldering and drilling holes in their frame to make their kit work.
I am planning on hooking this relay into an Antec True Power ~360 in a Coolermaster case. You can likely understand that after spending so much on this case, the last thing I want is a hacked hole in the back where I have a electric tape laden relay/switch hanging out. I would be willing to try and fit the relay and switch unit in the Antec power supply but I cannot remember how much headroom there is in the supply for me to add a Radioshack relay.
The reason I mention the cooltechnica unit is that the relay component is very small and discreet, something you could easily make room for within the case or in the power supply.
mr bean