...coming back to haunt you, BOO!
Ok, I recently found out that AMD specs actually call for a clamping force of 12 to 24 lbs, with 18 being typical, but that AMD specifically states that 30 lb is permissible, if one uses the 6 socket tabs (aren't you relieved?).
So I came across
this interesting article, a nice chart (p. 3) that describes the thermal property of the TIM joint of a TO-220 IC package (don't ask me why I looked that up, OK?), and graphs it as a function of clamping force.
The conclusion is that 20N (Newtons) is the minimum required force to properly mount a TO-220. If my calc are correct, that's 44 lbs